Well, I guess it was bound to happen sooner or later.It is **with great sadness** to me,
and it has **hurt me**
(although I will get over it very quickly...rest assured!)
because of what I received in an **anonymous comment**
and from an "ANONYMOUS COMMENTER",
that I have removed my last post concerning Cancer, and *ONLY PART* of what I had been going through. I opened my blog this evening, only to find, what I felt was an un-acceptable and un-kind comment, from someone who does not have courage enough to make themselves known.
I have deleted an "anonymous" comment tonight, that I felt was somewhat un-kind, and un-necessarily judgemental towards "my" words, "my" feelings, and "my" view point of something I recently had been going through, and about "only some!!!" of my reasons.....for NOT sharing about that personal thing with some others.
This "anonymous commenter'' was not, had not been, nor still is not in my head, heart, mind, home, nor my life (that I am aware of ?), therefore, this person was not and still is not fully involved in **ALL** aspects of my life...past & present. So therefore this person doesn't fully understand **ALL** of the involved reasons WHY I know that I cannot (at certain times) trust others around me. Sometimes, I prefer to **NOT** share things with others because of the very fact that.....I DO NOT want others to speak about things in a **NEGATIVE** way, giving our enemy...satan....more of our unwittingly spoken words to be seen as permission to do more...against us. Yes, other times, **it is** because people whether **un-intentionally or in-tentionally**, people will talk, and not keep things in confidence or ****just in prayer****.
PLUS...."ANONYMOUS" had you **bothered** to complete the reading of that paragraph, and see it's meaning, you **TRIED** to quote back to me....you would no doubt have seen the last sentence which was...."""Plus, I just didn't want to answer a bunch of questions, until it became necessary....KWIM?""" I do not write in riddles. I meant what it said. When someone is facing the question of Cancer or No Cancer, often times some people simply do NOT want to discuss it or answer questions of any kind UNTIL they know for sure what is the outcome of the testing.!!!!!!! So...do not try and quote my own words back at me sister/brother...unless you bother to read and quote the entire thought...paragraph...etc! Do not take things out of context. Include the whole...not just part !!!!! Read and understand ALL of it!!!
Now...in regards to ***ONE*** of the things that I had mentioned...concerning cervical cancer, and the Human Pappiloma Virus...WHICH IS ONLY ONE OF MANY IN-NUMERABLE reasons and or ways that some could POSSIBLY become exposed to, or get, CERVICAL CANCER....I was only referring to how it ***STARTLED ME*** (to quote my own words..."""that really freaked me out""") when "I" found out about it's connection to cervical cancer. SO...."ANONYMOUS"......read a persons words and learn to see "ALL" of what it is that they are speaking of, and about. Take into consideration that just what you see that is put into words, that you are privy to being able and allowed to read, **MAY NOT** be all that there is that a person may also be aware of. I ain't stupid?!?!?!? LOL.
So.......for future reference to any and all that wish to leave comments......****and I do still want and wish for all my online friends to leave me comments!!!!!***.....BUT !!!! I will, as of tonight delete any and all comments that are anonymous. If you want to leave a comment, and cannot or will not tell me who you are, AND what blog or website you are from, I shall delete you.
This is not to punnish "the innocent" as they say, because I do have a few who will leave me their names, and I say Thank you for that!
But because of ONE person, I will now merely delete those who will not reveal themselves openly.
I do so hope and pray that everyone understands, but if not, that's ok to.....this is my blog!
Love & Prayers,
Ronda
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